(*CW: Content Warning – This blog addresses gendered, sexist, and fatphobic language.) Welcome to a crucial conversation about the power of words in the world of pregnancy and childbirth. Language plays a profound role in shaping our perceptions and experiences, and when it comes to pregnancy and childbirth, the words used by a pregnancy provider can have a lasting impact on expectant parents. In this blog, we’ll explore the significance of inclusive language, provide a table with specific examples of non inclusive language and how to correct it, and shed light on how pregnancy providers can promote positive birth experiences through mindful communication.

The power of inclusive language is transformational; it can transform peoples’ emotions, situations and outcomes. Language is a potent tool for both connection and harm. The words used by a healthcare provider can influence how expectant parents feel about themselves, their bodies, and their birth experiences. Inclusive language not only respects the diverse identities and experiences of pregnant individuals but also contributes to a more positive and empowering journey into parenthood.

The Impact of Gendered and Fatphobic Language and Our Non Inclusive Language Table

Postpartum Essentials - a line art drawing of a baby being cradled with a parent's hand on their head with a very light pink background with peach water color circles and gold glitter accents

The impact of gendered language is enormous. Gendered language, which assumes that all expectant parents are cisgender women, can alienate and erase the experiences of transgender and non-binary individuals.

Using gender-neutral language is a simple yet profound way to create a more inclusive and supportive environment for all.

The stigma of fatphobic language is ever present and permeates every aspect of life, from job opportunities to promotions and bank loans to apartment approvals, as well as every snap judgment made every minute of everyday by millions of people whenever a fat person is brave enough to put themselves out there.

Fatphobic language, often disguised as medical concern, can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and negatively impact the mental and emotional well-being of pregnant individuals.

A provider should prioritize sensitivity, respect, and support for all body types and sizes.

Our Non Inclusive Language Table is a tool for you and your provider team. Let’s dive into specific examples of non inclusive language and how to correct it.

By recognizing these common phrases and adopting more inclusive alternatives, pregnancy providers can foster an environment of respect and affirmation.

Language profoundly shapes perceptions when it comes to pregnancy and childbirth, the words a pregnancy provider uses have lasting impact.

A Pregnancy Provider is Responsible for Promoting Positive Birth Experiences

Now that we’ve highlighted the importance of inclusive language and provided examples of how to correct non inclusive language, let’s explore how a pregnancy provider can promote positive birth experiences through mindful communication:

1.  Active Listening – A pregnancy provider should prioritize active listening, allowing expectant parents to express their thoughts, concerns, and preferences. This practice fosters trust and ensures that care aligns with the individual’s needs and desires.

2.  Open-Ended Questions – Use open-ended questions to encourage expectant parents to share their experiences and feelings freely. This approach facilitates meaningful conversations and helps providers gain a deeper understanding of their patients.

3.  Respectful Terminology – Always use terminology that respects the diverse identities, backgrounds, and experiences of expectant parents. Inclusive language reinforces that all individuals deserve compassionate and competent care.

4.  Avoid Assumptions – Avoid making assumptions about a person’s gender identity, relationship status, or birth preferences. Instead, ask respectful questions and use information provided by the individual.

5.  Empowerment – Empower expectant parents to be active participants in their care and decision-making process. Ensure they have access to comprehensive information to make informed choices.

6.  Supportive Environment – Create a supportive and affirming environment where expectant parents feel safe discussing their concerns and fears. Establish trust and provide resources for mental health support when needed.

Postpartum Essentials - a line art drawing of a mother and father cradling each other and a newborn on the father's shoulder with a beige background with green water color circle and gold glitter accents

Inclusive language isn’t just a matter of political correctness; it directly influences the well-being and experiences of pregnant individuals. Here’s how adopting inclusive language can have a positive impact:


  • Emotional Well-Being – Inclusive language promotes a sense of belonging and validation, reducing the risk of emotional distress and anxiety during pregnancy and childbirth.
  • Improved Communication – Clear and respectful communication between a provider and patients fosters trust, leading to more positive birth experiences and better health outcomes.
  • Enhanced Self-Advocacy – When individuals feel respected and valued, they are more likely to engage in self-advocacy and actively participate in their care decisions.
  • Reduced Health Disparities – Inclusive language helps reduce disparities in maternal and perinatal health outcomes by ensuring that care is tailored to the unique needs of all individuals.

In Conclusion

The impact of language on pregnancy and childbirth experiences cannot be overstated. A pregnancy provider plays a pivotal role in creating an environment of inclusivity, respect, and support. By adopting inclusive language, actively listening, and fostering open communication, providers can empower expectant parents to embark on their journey into parenthood with confidence and positivity.

Let’s remember that every individual deserves compassionate and respectful care, regardless of their gender identity, body size, or background. In the world of pregnancy and childbirth, language can be a powerful force for good, shaping the way we experience one of life’s most transformative moments.

Skip to content